Maintaining long term desire is possible!


Feeling stuck in a rut? Disconnected erotically and not sure where to start? I am guessing talking about these issues have stirred up so much already…

It is normal to desire erotic connection in our romantic relationships, and also quit common for energy to become blocked. Many couples today are bogged down with the complexities of life. Making it difficult for the love between them to naturally flow.

If you stay together long enough, all couples at some point, will struggles to connect sexually. Seeking professional help during these times is the best way to speed up the process of change, reconnection and passion.

Let me help you gently pull back the sheets of your relationship and uncover how to really connect.

It’s just need to communicate better, right?

Healthy communication, where both people can openly and vulnerably share — is one major factor in maintaining erotical closeness. Good communication creates safety, and feeling safe is the baseline for being able to enjoy an erotic connection. When communication is easy and flows effortlessly, it’s easy to make adjustments around sexual activities.

Although, maintaining long-term erotic passion requires more than just ‘good’ and ‘healthy’ communication.

You must learn how to play one others bodies like instruments. Gain awareness and understanding of each others deepest erotic desires and sexual fantasies. Be open to your own personal needs as well as your partners needs.

It’s totally possible!

In my couples sex coaching sessions, I have helped countless folks create sexual satisfaction, playfulness and erotic connection.

Wherever you are starting from, it is possible to change the patterns in your relationship and lead a life with deeper and more meaningful intimacy – sexual and emotional.

In our interactive couples sex coaching sessions, we will get to the root of what is keeping you and your partner from coming together, literally and metaphorically.

The exploration of igniting your sex life can be playful, fulfilling and enlightening.

A test to see if you need couples therapy

Want to bring desire, curiosity and excitement back into your relationship but not sure how?

What about a sultry night in a sex club in Paris!?!

I meet couples in Paris and help them get ready for a night they will never forget. Learn more about my “Before and After” sessions.

Accreditation's and Training's

BA in Psychology. University of California, Irvine. 2008

Certified Sexological Bodyworker. The Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, 2010

Certified Queer Conscious Educator. John F. Kennedy University, 2012

Somatica Professional Training. Somatica® Institute, 2013

Master in Counseling Psychology with a Focus in Marriage and Family Therapy and an Emphasis in Holistic Studies. John F. Kennedy University, 2012

Masters Thesis: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Certified Somatica Practitioner. Somatica® Institute, 2013

Hakomi Professional Training. Hakomi Institute of California, 2014

Attending to Attachment; Mindfulness Based Approaches to Healing Adult Attachment. Hakomi Institute of California, 2016

Somatica Professional Couples Training. Somatica® Institute, 2016

Hakomi - Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy; Teacher’s Assistant. California Institute of Integral Studies, 2017

The Hakomi Character Map. Hakomi Institute of California, 2017

Embodied Love and Lovemaking: A Full-Spectrum Neurobiological-Gestalt (FSG) Training In Embodied Relational Sex Therapy Stella Resnick, PHD., 2018

Recreation of the Self: Model of Human Systems Hakomi Institute of California, 2018

Sessions with Esther Perel. Online community forum for therapist, coaches and educators. Esther Perel, 2016 - present

The Healing Power of Unconditional Presence; Integrating Spiritual, Psychological and Embodiment Work. Ongoing Group; John Welwood, PhD., 2012 - present

Some common reasons couples see me:

Little or no sexual desire from one or both people

One of the most common reasons people see me is little or no sexual desire. In session together, we will explore what’s blocking the erotic energy from naturally flowing, helping you and your partner get back to passionate lovemaking.

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Little or no sexual desire from one or both people
Turning up the heat and having the hottest sex of your lives

Is your whole relationship amazing but your sex life seems to be just ok? Or, as you grew closer in other ways, has your sex gradually mellowed and become less passionate? This is a very common experience for many couples. Why settle for stale when you could be blowing each other’s minds! Let’s open up your world as a couple and see what’s possible.

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Turning up the heat and having the hottest sex of your lives

Many couples have decided having one sexual partner doesn’t work for them and have consciously decided to explore open relationships. This non-traditional attitude can bring with it many unanticipated fears and feelings. I would love to help you navigate the adventurous terrain and educate how open relationships can flow for you.

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Relationship Infidelity ~ recover and thrive after

Choosing to stay in your relationship after a breach of trust takes courage, commitment and forgiveness. Let’s move through this life-changing disruption with care and honesty, which can help bring you and your partner closer together than ever before.

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Relationship Infidelity ~ recover and thrive after
Reconnecting with our ever changing bodies

Our bodies are constantly changing, and as we grow older, we can become more disconnected sexually from our own bodies as well as our partner’s body. Re-learning about one another's bodies can be more pleasurable than you ever imagined.

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Reconnecting with our ever changing bodies
Coming back together after having children

Having children can be one of the most rewarding experiences, and it can also throw a curveball around intimacy with couples. There is no reason bringing a new life into the world needs to stop you from fully living. Let’s explore how you can reconnect together to have even better sex than before children.

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Coming back together after having children
Exploring Fantasy

Exploring something new can be both exhilarating and scary. Expressing our innermost sexual secrets is one of the most vulnerable experiences we can have as a human. Sometimes you might need a bit of help navigating the terrain. Whether it is learning your turn ons, fully embracing your sexual fantasies or exploring a new world of fantasy, I can help you make it fun, rewarding and connecting.

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Exploring Fantasy
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