Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction ~ Psychological 


The inability to engage fully in the sex you want because you’re not able to get hard enough is frustrating – to say the least. Psychological erectile dysfunction can displace your whole romantic life. Has the concern you wont be able to get-it-up kept you from engaging erotically with anyone altogether? The fear and embarrassment of not getting hard can take a very heavy toll on your energy. Erectile disfunction issues can be shameful to look at, but together, I can help you literally overcome whats keeping you down.  I want to help you understand your sexual self more fully and opening up to endless sexual possibilities.

Common Reasons

Understanding the most common reasons most men are unable to get hard is a great first start in uncovering what is happening for you. Below are three most common psychological reasons men experience not being able to get hard.

~ Performance anxiety

Fear of being a bad lover or being unable to please your partner.

~ Over impulse control

Over-riding your own sexual impulses. Not following what turns you on.

~ Emotional reverberations from difficult relationships

The connection between you and your partner does not allow you to feel safe and calm enough to relax into your pleasure.

Most men who struggle with psychological erectile disfunction often have some combination of these three. In our sessions, we uncover what is keeping you stuck. You will learn how to connect to your erotic energy more easily and fully, and bring yourself fulling into sexual experiences.

Erectile Dysfunction ~ Medical 


You’ve visited the MD and they tell you “there is nothing we can do.” You feel concerned your sex life is over?  What will your sex life look like if you are unable to get full erections? What will you tell your partner? Will you be able to find a partner?

In sessions together, we will help you better understand how to get what you can from what you have access to now. There are many sexual joys that you can still experience even with medical ED. Don’t wait one more day not experiencing the intimacy that you need.

Final thoughts


Erectile dysfunction can screw with how feel about yourself as a man. You deserve to have desire, connection and pleasure in your life. I have helped many men overcome this issue. Let’s get to the bottom of what is holding you back from connecting fully with your arousal.

Contact me today to get started learning how to own your erotic energy!

Erectile Dysfunction

Accreditation's and Training's

BA in Psychology. University of California, Irvine. 2008

Certified Sexological Bodyworker. The Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, 2010

Certified Queer Conscious Educator. John F. Kennedy University, 2013

Somatica Professional Training. Somatica® Institute, 2013

Master in Counseling Psychology with a Focus in Marriage and Family Therapy and an Emphasis in Holistic Studies. John F. Kennedy University, 2014

Masters Thesis: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Certified Somatica Practitioner. Somatica® Institute, 2014

Hakomi Professional Training. Hakomi Institute of California, 2014

Attending to Attachment; Mindfulness Based Approaches to Healing Adult Attachment. Hakomi Institute of California, 2016

Somatica Professional Couples Training. Somatica® Institute, 2016

Hakomi - Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy; Teacher’s Assistant. California Institute of Integral Studies, 2017

The Hakomi Character Map. Hakomi Institute of California, 2017

Sessions with Esther Perel. Online community forum for therapist, coaches and educators. Esther Perel, 2016 - present

The Healing Power of Unconditional Presence; Integrating Spiritual, Psychological and Embodiment Work. Ongoing Group; John Welwood, PhD., 2012 - present