Tag Archives: sex

When One Person Wants More Sex Than The Other

When One Person Wants More Sex Than The Other

“I want more sex then they do,” is a statement that I here often. It’s a common reason couples come to see me for sex coaching and it’s also a conversation I have with many of my friends. Misaligned sex drives are one of. ...

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Do we need sex therapy? Find out in 7 Easy Questions

Do we need sex therapy? Find out in 7 Easy Questions

Find out in 7 easy questions if you and your partner need to book an appointment with sex therapist. It’s difficult to know when it’s become time to see an expert for advice in your relationship. Romantic relationships naturally go through up and downs. ...

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How the Word “Should” is Killing Your Sex Life

How the Word “Should” is Killing Your Sex Life

You should be like this. You should do that. If you want a healthy sexy life you should try this with your partner. There are “should’s” any direction you turn these days. People, other people, who you have not met, are telling you how. ...

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Fantasy vs. Reality: Which is Better?

Fantasy vs. Reality: Which is Better?

Fantasy and using our imaginations is a natural part of being human. We have the ability to fantasize about so many things – especially sexual things. Everyone has had a sexual fantasy. Whether it is about someone sweeping you off your feet (romantic), unexpectedly. ...

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Passion: Find It and Keep It

Passion: Find It and Keep It

Passion: Find It and Keep It Remember the beginning of your relationship, all those feelings of passion? You were lustful and excited about getting to know the other person. You stayed up all night talking endlessly, and a mere look or slight touch turned. ...

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Let’s Rebrand Foreplay

Let’s Rebrand Foreplay

Let’s do it! Right here, right now, let’s forever change what we refer to as “foreplay” to something else. Let re-brand foreplay to more accurately represent the sex acts for what they are. First off, it’s all play. Sex is, at its finest, adult. ...

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After The Honeymoon Phase

After The Honeymoon Phase

Most of us have listened to stories from friends or experienced the typical arch of a sexual relationship. You start out with a burning lust and desire for the other person; it feels so good to be with them and everything they do turns. ...

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Too much of a good thing? When Self-Reliance Backfires

Too much of a good thing? When Self-Reliance Backfires

Many of us are brought up to believe self-reliance or individuality is one of the most important personal qualities to cultivate. And it is. But there is a flip-side to having too much self-reliance that can work against people, hindering personal growth and bonding. ...

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Desire Reboot

Desire Reboot

We recently ran across an article in the Guardian where a man asked: “I am 63, and have lost sexual attraction for my wife of 45 years. I still love her but this has been a progressive issue. I feel bad because I find. ...

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