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At the beginning of last year, I had a brilliant idea:
I want to create an online video course for clients who struggle with premature ejaculation.
After all, I’ve received calls from men all over the world who felt they were doomed to a life of “early release.” They tried it...
Step 4
'Sweet Spot'
Step 4 is learning where your “sweet spot” is on your arousal curve. When you first start working on ejaculation control, your sweet spot is going to be much lower than after you’ve gained more confidence.
Meaning when you first start to practice, your sweet...
Have you been curious about what the most common questions of men who struggle to control their ejaculation are? so do many people. below is a compilation of the most common questions I get.
- How long do men typically sustain erections (what is a realistic baseline)?
Most erections come and go....
Step 5
The fifth and final step (which is often already happening if you’re practicing the four steps before) is to let the energy that builds in your cock move through the rest of the body.
Imagine the energy moving
When you are masturbating or with your partner, imagine the intense...
Getting stuck chasing the your orgasm is something many of us are familiar with. It seems so normal that it’s become habitual – sex doesn’t “count” unless there’s an orgasm. Both people have to reach climax, right?
With all their splendor and glory, orgasms...
Step 3
The next step is learning your curves. The two curves you'll need to better understand for ejaculation control is the arousal curve and anxiety curve. I refer to both scales 1 through 10, 1 being low and 10 being the high.
The arousal curve is how aroused you feel and how hard your...
Step 2
This next step is learning 'anal breath.' Most people look at me like I am literally crazy when I start talking about how your asshole and how tight you are clenching is one of the most important tool in learning to control your ejaculation.
Anal Breath and Orgasm
For men and women alike,...
What is the strategy you can actually apply in order to control your ejaculation?
First, before you start any sexual experience, whether it’s masturbating or with a partner, you want to make sure you use the bathroom. Like earlier when you learned about the fight or flight response, if...
I want to offer you the natural premature ejaculation treatment plan that has helped countless men.
As a sex and relationship expert specializing in male performance struggles, I have witnessed first-hand the difficulties (and triumphs) of many men who struggle with premature...
Early Ejaculation Psychological Factors
One of the biggest psychological factors you may be facing if you're struggling with early ejaculation is feeling like pleasure is not important or welcomed - especially as it relates to your body.
Many men who struggle with premature ejaculation report...
Are ejaculating right away and or losing your erection? I want to help you learn another option ~ experience your arousal without anxiety. That is what my premature ejaculation treatment approach is all about.
Arousal Without Anxiety
My goal is to help you understand your arousal from a...
When a couples shows up in my office and we start exploring where things went wrong and how can they fix the issue or issues at hand, I lean into the three main facets of the modern relationship that most people have come to expect without consciously realizing it. While many times the answer for...